The Toxic Trait of Seeing People For Their Potential Instead of Who They Have Always Been

So-and-so would be so much better if only they just did [insert random thing here].

I imagine that line made you cringe, right?

So why do we feel the need to judge people as unfinished projects instead of accepting them for who they are?

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